Wednesday, August 25, 2010
Drive Each Other Wild - Instead of being the family chauffeur, let the kids ride the bus or carpool with a neighbor or friend. Take advantage of those brief morning or evening moments and kiss your partner. Be flirty, playful, and act like you just started dating.
Get Rid of The Guilt - I promise, it is okay to miss one soccer game or ballet recital or karate class. Especially if you are going to work on your relationship. Resist the urge to be SuperMom or SuperDad, earning perfect attendance at all of your child's extracurricular activities. Your children will not hate you and/or need years of therapy because you chose a date with your partner over their activity. Schedule an occasional date with your partner when the kids are practicing or competing.
Special Delivery - Most professions allow for a lunch break, be it 30 minutes or an hour. Instead of eating last night's leftovers or the fast food value meal, make a special lunch appointment with your partner. Since the kids are at school, meet at home for a lunchtime love session. If you live too far from home, plan ahead, save some money, and invest in a hotel room for this occasion.
Add Some Spice - Have the kids complete homework or chores in their rooms while dinner is being prepared. You and your partner can playfully cook dinner together. Kneading dough, sifting flour, stirring sauces, and washing veggies can turn into romantic activities for two. This time it is okay to play with your food!
Now that the kids are occupied with school, take some time each day (or at least each week) to foster intimacy with your partner. Give your relationship the extra-credit it deserves.