Wednesday, August 4, 2010

How To Know If You Are Officially Over Them

1.  Thoughts of them no longer stir up emotions
2.  You can honestly say that you wish them well
3.  Weeks go by with no thought of them
4.  You no longer wonder if they think about you
5.  Accidentally running into does not evoke fear
6.  Current and/or future partners are not compared to them
7.  You accept the relationship as it was and not what it appeared to be
8.  There is no blame for what occurred in the relationship
9.  The relationship is seen as a learning experience
10. You feel strengthened and the prospect of a new relationship is exciting!


  1. Nice post. Although #10 depends. You can be over your ex and feel so happy about it and being single that you're not quite ready to do the relationship dance again.

  2. So true. My hope is at least we are ready for something new, be it a relationship or just some fun.