Male-Female Friendships

Friends of the opposite sex can bring a lot to our lives.  They give us a glimpse into how the "other half lives."  They can give us advice into how men or women are thinking and how we should respond in certain situations.

Common men in a woman's life:
The Guy We'd Never...
This guy is funny, intelligent and you feel totally comfortable around him.  He is like a brother and you do not see him in a romantic light whatsoever.  But could you...

Secret Love
There is something about this guy that is irresistible.  Although you value his friendship, you would say yes before he could even ask you for a date.






The "Will" to our "Grace"
Every contemporary diva needs a "Will" to balance her life.  This guy may fit the stereotypical image of a gay man or he may not.  Either way he brings a certain "je ne sais quoi" to the relationship that is refreshing!

Midnight Cowboy
An ex or someone you've never had a real relationship with for many reasons.  He does little more than fulfill, let's say, basic needs.  He's not exactly boyfriend material and you may deny talking to him, but...well, you know.






Common women in a man's life:

Any Day Now...
No matter how long you've known this girl, your main objective is to add her to your "list".  She is attractive, a bit of a challenge, and possibly unaware of your desires.  But if you get the green light...it is on!





Midnight (or anytime) Cowgirl
When the bar is closing and you've had no luck, you call her.  Because no matter how late (or early) it is, she will pick up.  Or she is a girl who you hang out with from time to time, but doesn't know what type of "friend" she is.  

Childhood friend 
(the guy we'd never's friend)
This girl is absolutely amazing.  You have many things in common, you can tell her anything, and you actually enjoy spending time with her.  No wonder everyone thinks you guys should date...

Why Women Should NOT Tell Their Friends EVERYTHING

Female friendships are nourished by conversations about life experiences, both personal and impersonal.  Frustrations with work and family, questions about intimate relationships, even what to wear to an important event hinge upon discussions with our dear friends.  


But, it is possible to share too much information with a friend?


Boundaries must exist in all relationships, even those with our BFFs, for many reasons.  


Things you SHOULD NOT share with your girlfriends:


Private details about dating/marital relationships
Talking about intimate relationship issues (sex, partners finances, etc.) may lead to sticky situations. Some low self-esteem friends may try to hone in on your territory.  Others may offer ill-advised solutions. The bottom line is you should be talking to your partner and not your girlfriends.     


Decisions you may regret later
If unsure about breaking it off with a partner who your friends despise, keep it to yourself until you make a clear decision.  Girlfriends only want what is best for you and may find it hard not to say "I told you so"!  


Rumors about other friends
Besides creating drama, this sends the message that you are not to be trusted.  Your girlfriends will wonder if you are also gossiping about them to others.  


Trivial things that could harm the friendship
Some things are better left unsaid.  Although valued, your opinion should be given when requested.  Step in when your friend is doing something that will harm her or someone else.  Otherwise, wait to give honest feedback when asked.         






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Family Dinners

In a 2009 CBS News poll of parents with children:

• 74% eat dinner as a family most of the time during the week
• 64% report rarely texting, emailing, or talking on the phone during dinner
• 53% always or sometimes have the television on during dinner

Numerous research studies have emphasized the importance of family dinners.  Eating dinner together has many benefits for the entire family, especially children.  Just two dinners per week can have the following effects:

• Increase self-esteem and body image
• Decrease risk for juvenile delinquency, substance abuse, eating disorders, and other risk behaviors
• Increase academic achievement

Through communication at the dinner table and increased involvement, parents can expect positive outcomes as a result of family dinners.  

Need ideas for your family? Follow these simple tips:

Have a set time for dinner - which gives your family time to prepare and make dinner a priority.  

Stick to positive topics - this is not the time to discuss bad grades, broken curfews or dents in the family car.  Keep the conversation light and happy.

Involve children in meal preparation - allow kids to help with grocery lists and shopping, chopping fruits and veggies or making a fun dessert.  

Turn off distracting devices - t.v., cellphones, mp3 players, and computers should take a nap during dinnertime.  The only entertainment needed for family dinners are conversation and family interaction!

To Spank or Not To Spank?

According to a ABC news poll of 1,015 parents:

• 65% approve of spanking children 
• 50% spank their own children
• 72% think school teachers should not be allowed to spank children

It appears that most parents are okay with corporal punishment as long as they are in charge.

What are your feelings about spanking?